Happy Father's Day to all the Dads!
Study Group 3 The Balanced Warrior
For those of you who aren't aware, we are studying the book Wiccan Warrior-Walking a Spiritual Path in a Sometimes Hostile World by Kerr Cuhulain.
One of the members informed me that this book is out of print. (awww man!) So if you don't have this book and want to get it, you might have to find it in used books at amazon.com or on Ebay.
Everyone had a chance to share what they discovered about themselves in their fearless moral inventory. One participant discovered she still had anger toward her father that she thought she had dealt with while another discovered fears and where they stemmed from.
The point of this exercise is not to find all the bad things about yourself, but to find the things that block you or hold you back. What does that have to do with right action? Right action makes the way for balance and that is where we begin this week.
Chapter three begins with this quote:
Our word religion comes from the Latin and means "to bind together." A successful religion is one that binds together all the fundamental rhythms that each of us experiences: the personal rhythm of the human body, the larger social rhythm of the family, tribe, or nation and the enveloping cosmic rhythms of the planet and the universe. If the religion "works," its followers are rewarded by a new dimension of rhythm and time-the sacred." -Mickey Hart (Planet Drum)
*Do you think earth based religions work?
All participants said yes. I think this is where the clash between religions comes in-it is hard for some people to accept that a religion can be different from theirs and work for those who believe it.
The first paragraph of page 19 talks about how we are linked to the earth and how divinity is in everything including all people.
The group was challenged to think about someone they really don't like and have trouble dealing with-can you see the God/Goddess in this person?
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How about this-after reading this passage can you look at this person differently and see the God/Goddess?
That was a little harder huh?
Kerr next talks about if a dualist looks at tree, they see perhaps a building or something that can make a profit, when he looks at a tree he sees a living thing, a sacred thing. So if the tree is used it must be replaced and that is how balance is achieved.
Here is one of the favorite quotes from page 20:
"A real warrior needs no strength at all to defeat an opponent who is off balance."
We talked about the chaos that exists when there is no balance.
*Can you think of a time in your life when you experienced chaos? Can you see where being unbalanced led to this chaos? In my opinion balance is the key to everything! If your charkas are not balanced you get sick! Maintaining balance is one of the most important things a person needs to do and the thing that many people struggle with the most. The proper use of energy will help with this and that will be covered in the book later.
Guilt was the next topic in page 21 paragraph 2 we are told that we "are not immune to failure but do not succumb to guilt. The Wiccan Warrior realizes we all have individual characteristics that in different circumstances may be assets or liabilities"
We discussed how guilt is used in other religions and how we allow people to make us feel guilty. The book tells us that "Guilt is eliminated and replaced with the rede."
When was the last time your read over the rede? I personally think the rede should be memorized. All 26 stanzas? Yes!
Another quote that everyone liked was "Power isn't something that you own, it's something that you achieve." (p22)
On the subject of power, the idea that "power shared is power lost" (p23) was brought up. This has to do with the withholding of information or knowledge. In our particular group (and coven) we feel that our knowledge of the path is a gift to be shared with others, whether they are a member of our coven or not. The idea that "I know something you don't so that makes me more important than you." Is not an idea that we prescribe to.
Kerr cautions the reader on page 23 to be careful of those who use the secrecy to cover up that they don't know anymore than you do.
Paragraph 1 on page 24 talks about the responsibility of teaching others:
"As a Wiccan Warrior I don't interpret, I point out possible paths."
We had to move things along at this point because we were running out of time- another important thing was pointed out on page 25:
"The point is every action that you take as a Wiccan Warrior should have a purpose."
The author is still talking about keeping secrets and the difference between common sense (keeping things quiet for protection) and keeping things quiet because it makes you feel important.
The very last paragraph tells us that
"A Wiccan Warrior's understanding of the interconnectedness and balance of the univers around them allows them to acieve startling results with a minimu of energy expenditure...Practicing honesty and openness both with themselves and those around them they banish guilt and live fearlessly." (p 26)
The challenge and journaling for this week is to look at areas in your life where you are not connected or balanced because you did not practice openness and honesty.
Read Chapter 4 for next week.